I was
reading a magazine on line a week ago. I love reading, but don’t get the time
now-a-days so internet reading help allot. If I have a quick few sec’s I read
some articles on the internet.
I know I
have kids now and are a mommy, and loads of people always have this thing of
you have to move on its a new life blab la blab la....irritating.....balbalblabla.
YES I did
move on... but infertility was my life for ¼ of my living on earth and I am not robot-like , so you cannot just press
the button. I still have friends in the fuck-up-life-IF and I love other peoples stories!!
SO I read
the story.....about “ we have struggle for 3 years and could not fall preggers,
and so we went to a fertility clinic and the doctor discuss IVF’s..... AND NOW
FOR THE PART THAT JUST FLIP ME OVER..... While I was sitting there God was
saying to me.... “this is not right to do IVF, because its not from me...it is unnatural”
so I decided we will not do it AND DRUMROLL!!! The next month I was pregnant.
Stories like
this gives me a cramp !! Because actually
you said. If you do this treatment you are WRONG !! have this idiot ever think
that IVF’s success rate is 25-30% so if the clinic was a god the rate would
have been 100% so the doc’s just got brains to help you they don’t make
babies!! They just assist.
And what if
you are not the like one that could fall pregnant after 3 years, what if
nothing work for you. I still think I could have gone to the extreme to adopt a
crocodile or join the circus , but a
baby myself never!! I needed a different
way to have a baby. And what ever way, go there if its all that work for
you!!
If this
person maybe got sick like cancer will she go for chemo?? will that be from
GOD?
Like the one
celeb said in a magazine.... if you can not have a kids , do IVF It work the first time for her and its so
easy!! How de hell can you say something like that ( I don’t think she have
brains any case) do she know that there is women who can do IVF and IVF till
you die, and it will not work. To do IVf is not for sissy’s its hardcore...
if your first IVF that don’t work.... it
will make you feel like you busy dying.
SO count yourself
lucky if normal sex is your answer for babies!
Mmmm, artikels soos die maak my ook baie kwaad. Ek wou ook nooit IVF doen nie, maar soms kom jy tot op 'n punt waar jy net absoluut enige iets sal doen om jou babatjie te kry en daai vrou was duidelik nog nie daar nie. Ook baie gerieflik dat sy die volgende maand swanger geraak het... Wens dit kon met ons almal gebeur het...
ReplyDeleteI am hyperventalating..... for F@#$ sake!! Yes I am an IVF barbie, but medicated time cycles, 7 years "off" the pill just did not do it! We are TTC#2 again with ART this time FET, "natural" just did not do it for us. Stupid ignorant cow . . . sorry having a bad day, but jeepers! What magazine was this?
ReplyDeleteYes!! it freaks me out if people make IVF off as you "did not try it all on yourself" for F3$@#k sake do they think we are bored and for adventure want to do IVFFING?
ReplyDeleteFreaking hell, its terrible to be on that bus!!
Tha magazine..... a SA baby magazine !! they love to put stories that sound o so hard, but I wonder why they dont start digging for the worst one's.... but I think the bad ones is not hope ones!! people wants the easy ride.
Sjoe, dis maar goed ek het daardie artikel nie gelees nie, want dan het die vonke gespat...watter tydskrif was dit? Sal graag vir die redakteur wil laat weet hoe geaffronteer ek voel.
ReplyDeleteEk is bly Liewe Jesus se witbroodjie het haar bondeltjie vreugde gekry. Ek wonder wat gaan sy doen as hy nog 5 jaar vat voor hy nommer 2 stuur?