Racing on their favourite horse  'MINE"

It is  mine !! NO!! Its mine!! NO Its Mine!!!!

NO!!!!!!! Its mine!!!!! No!! Its mine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

This is what I am listening to ALL day! The twins want their own everything, not wanted to give any part of what they think is theirs, to their brother or sister.

It’s ridiculous!! Cause they have mostly two of everything so while making a sandwich, preparing two at the same time , it’s mine you hear!!

Giving them something to drink, it’s MINE!!!

And then it’s not that they take the other’s stuff, they just want them to know it’s theirs!!!!

I think they have realized the word MINE and it’s a game now!!!!

To see their personalities develop at this stage is strange!! Everything have change and so different. I think they have now figuring out who they will be in life!! And this  I can tell you!!!!!

I have the North Pole on the one side and the South on the other!!!!!!!

They walk like this the whole day!!

                                              The one and only!!! MOUSE!! back home again!

Kids have been snotty and coughing and at last when you think you have tick it all off. Nika’s last molar pitch and she is crying all day. SO yes  I have had a hectic time on hands and nearly lost it all.

 And then the worse that could happen, you lost their favourite, their best sleeping toy, their best friend ever their one and only...

 

THE MOUSE!!!!!!!

 

We have been at my parents and the morning when we need to left with no time on hands, “the mouse” was gone!!! Firstly I thought that maybe one of them have put it in the bags, because we just could not find it!!

We would never ever leave without the 2 Mouse but I was thinking that they are just between our stuff.

At home unpacking all our bags, one mouse is gone. Going through the washing, One mouse are still gone. Phone my mom to search for “mouse”

That evening the “mouse” was still missing!!! And we where hopping like rabbits to not let the twins see one is gone.

Next morning the “mouse” was still missing and so misses his lift with the school bus to our town!

After a few hours still missing we where force to put out a reward for “mouse” this will let people make and extra effort to search.

At 12h I got the call  THE MOUSE HAVE BEEN FOUND!

It was such a relief!!!! It felt like I found one of the twins!.

Funny that you just take day to day and doing your normal things , things get out of hand and more chaotic each minute and then one day you realize.

STOP STOP THE BUS!!!

The excitement with twins taken up ALL and this I can tell you, ALL your time with ZERO time for anything which includes me. I end up with always cleaning, yelling, trying to catch one to dress, to feed, to play.

This is where I have found myself 2 weeks ago...... LOST totally LOST! Help!

I also know I am chaotic too so this is where disaster have struck! BC Kids I was having a programme to which I stick, but now the only thing that have structure is my kids sleeping-routine. 2-3 hours( 3 hours now in winter I think it’s to cold to get up) sleep in the afternoon and 20h00-20h30 in bed at night.

So 2 weeks ago while feeling lost! I know I needed to get a grip of twin-chaos-me life. So while they was playing outside  I took some paper and pen and start writing down all the stuff I miss and want to do.... like

3x treadmill a week                                                

1x hour reading a week

1x hour mani and pedi time a week ( actually this is to fix my chipping cutex)

2 x Play dates for the kids

3 x activity doings

1 x week coffee date

Mondays after Luv comes home, its  HOUSE CLEANING SERVICE-ALA-ME

2 x writing a week

Wednesday night its date night- watching movies at home.

From Friday to Sunday it’s Family time

This programme have started the very next day.... with mind blowing results!!!!!

I stick to my “NEW-ORGANIZE-ROUTINE” and just do what I need to do for that day. It turns out to be heaven in my life now. How I don’t know but I have loads of extra time on hands. I have reads 2 books in the Last two weeks. The kids get much more of my time and we have watch MOVIES!!! My nails are manicure again. Just show you if you are crazy-head.... stick to the rules.

I think I found myself again!!!! Jippeeeeee!

Foam Fun

 

Time to chill

..even time for pedi's

 

 

 

 

 

Wishing I was near!! to party with you!!!

The twins just love their auntyxxxxx

If you think you can not do it !!! remember this....

                                                   In the Gardens.. squirrels under attack!!

We have been away on a holiday break this past week. And it was great. We went to Cape Town, after all the years of sitting and making up time in Cape Town while busy with IF treatment and then when the kids were born, I can really say WE WHERE FET UP FOR CAPE TOWN. There was NO urge to go there, we have had enough!

                             Having coffee at the Twelve Apostles

Nika think this place is utter boring!! she slept zzzzz

 

The other thing is when we went there,  there are always hundred and ten million things we neat to do and buy and found out prices of, But this time we decided we are going on holiday!!  NO Shopping or Mall visits! Just fun. And boy this was great!! We came back totally exhausted .

                      getting into the Big wheel at the V&A Waterfront

 

 

 

                                  Table mountain in the back ground

 

First weekend the dates match up with one of my dear friends 40^th so nice to meet all the new people. I love parties where I don’t know anyone! While driving into Stellenbosch this feeling of bless cover me and all emotions dust on me of the twins birth in this town. I got this still-cannot-believe-how-lucky-i-am-feeling. I cried! So I  drive around the venue just to get myself wrap up again. I stay at friends where we always enjoy the company. It was here where while at the party and Luv doing babysitting  nika decided to NOT SLEEP ( her father was under the impression she is fast asleep. She went to our room open my little bag full of cutex and decided she is in def neat of and manicure. She open 10 bottles of cutex ( yes 10!) and did a mani and a pedi, painted our sunglasses  and redo the duvet. When bored she neatly put back all 10 bottles different colours of cutex back in the bag and closed it neatly ( she just did not put back the lots of any of the 10 bottles) she then went to see if the baby in the next door room was sleeping..... with her wet-just painted-feet on my friends duvet. The lesson...... don’t ever think if it’s quiet, they are sleeping!!!!

Having fun!!!

 

 

The  week we stay at a place in Sea point, where daily we went out at 8 and getting back at 8 again. We drive all over Cape Town, went to beaches and let the kids play, visit many coffee shops! Maybe this is the reason when we took Nika to get her eyes check, they women show her n picture of a cup and saucer she said.. Coffee!!!

                                                 Truth Coffee Bar

 

Gee ,we have had a great time!!! And the kids are so use to always travel and going around, each day the took there naps in the pram for 2 hours!! This  was when me and Luv could sit down for lunch or coffee.

                         Watching Suro-sus kid's first hockey game

And the High light to end it up!! Suro sus and Fam offer to look after the kids one night!! This was like Christmas! We could not believe our luck!!!! We went to a night spa for the night!! It was great and so relaxing, but to stay awake was hell!! I don’t know who was snoring the hardest? Me or luv?

                      Always know they will make the world turn round!!

This was a wonderful break, and just in time!!!!!

                                                   our date-night!