May 26, 2014

If you think you can not do it !!! remember this....

May 19, 2014

                                                   In the Gardens.. squirrels under attack!!


We have been away on a holiday break this past week. And it was great. We went to Cape Town, after all the years of sitting and making up time in Cape Town while busy with IF treatment and then when the kids were born, I can really say WE WHERE FET UP FOR CAPE TOWN. There was NO urge to go there, we have had enough!
                             Having coffee at the Twelve Apostles
Nika think this place is utter boring!! she slept zzzzz
 

The other thing is when we went there,  there are always hundred and ten million things we neat to do and buy and found out prices of, But this time we decided we are going on holiday!!  NO Shopping or Mall visits! Just fun. And boy this was great!! We came back totally exhausted .
                      getting into the Big wheel at the V&A Waterfront
 
 
 
                                  Table mountain in the back ground
 

First weekend the dates match up with one of my dear friends 40th so nice to meet all the new people. I love parties where I don’t know anyone! While driving into Stellenbosch this feeling of bless cover me and all emotions dust on me of the twins birth in this town. I got this still-cannot-believe-how-lucky-i-am-feeling. I cried! So I  drive around the venue just to get myself wrap up again. I stay at friends where we always enjoy the company. It was here where while at the party and Luv doing babysitting  nika decided to NOT SLEEP ( her father was under the impression she is fast asleep. She went to our room open my little bag full of cutex and decided she is in def neat of and manicure. She open 10 bottles of cutex ( yes 10!) and did a mani and a pedi, painted our sunglasses  and redo the duvet. When bored she neatly put back all 10 bottles different colours of cutex back in the bag and closed it neatly ( she just did not put back the lots of any of the 10 bottles) she then went to see if the baby in the next door room was sleeping..... with her wet-just painted-feet on my friends duvet. The lesson...... don’t ever think if it’s quiet, they are sleeping!!!!
Having fun!!!
 
 

The  week we stay at a place in Sea point, where daily we went out at 8 and getting back at 8 again. We drive all over Cape Town, went to beaches and let the kids play, visit many coffee shops! Maybe this is the reason when we took Nika to get her eyes check, they women show her n picture of a cup and saucer she said.. Coffee!!!
                                                 Truth Coffee Bar
 

Gee ,we have had a great time!!! And the kids are so use to always travel and going around, each day the took there naps in the pram for 2 hours!! This  was when me and Luv could sit down for lunch or coffee.
                         Watching Suro-sus kid's first hockey game

And the High light to end it up!! Suro sus and Fam offer to look after the kids one night!! This was like Christmas! We could not believe our luck!!!! We went to a night spa for the night!! It was great and so relaxing, but to stay awake was hell!! I don’t know who was snoring the hardest? Me or luv?
                      Always know they will make the world turn round!!

This was a wonderful break, and just in time!!!!!
                                                   our date-night!

 

May 8, 2014

This weekend In Cape Town  The Infertility Awareness Association of South Africa will have
Infertility Seminars with wonderful people and doctors that will give some talks.

So if you know anyone who are on the bus, was an infertile or is in need of info '''''''LET THEM KNOW!!""

www.ifaasa.co.za

May 5, 2014


Apr 23, 2014


The past weekend was Easter weekend and it was time for egg hunting!! Must say I think I am more excited than the kids, because this year they understand more what’s going on!

When they spot the eggs from the balcony they went ballistic! And to see them running around like rabbits was so much fun. Nika just scream when seeing an egg! Wium pick up all the eggs. If it was not form sharing the eggs some, would have ended up with only one!.

We got the “glow in the dark eggs” that kids love, I think we have hide that eggs more than a million of times this weekend.

And me and Luv ended up eating all the eggs... Mmmmmmmm

 

And the rest of the weekend they go to the balcony peeping over and ask when the bunny is going again..... this are going to be a long year till next-year-bunny-time!.

I've got them!
Me too!!!
Yes, I am an egg-hunter!
 
When will this happen again, Mommy?
Mom, also found the  most precious 2 bunnies!!
 
 

Apr 16, 2014

Yesterday it was our 14th anniversary!!  can really say not much happen, it was  boring! Luv went for work to next door town and me and the kids visit friends which was great!! but to have my kids around me was ecstatic!

Apr 11, 2014

                                                               The Two-Brains


Two brains are def better and more challenging to deal with.

I know I have entered the terrible two’s, which really are not at all bad. I acutely love it. The tantrum stage we have sort out long ago. The tantrums they can do, they not allow to make any noise while busy tantrum. Which is funny to see. They look like worms lying on the floor. So you just step over them and go on as normal.

But the way they team-up and mostly it’s against poor me and the enormous plans this two brains can think of to do, is ageing me up with a speed of a flash.

If one don’t want to do it, they will stick together and the other way will not want to do it or eat it. Mostly the one will eat and loving it than the other one say no, don’t want to eat. It’s only then when the other twin brain, stop to think.... I also don’t want to eat!.

They get up on to things which let me gasp for air. And they encourage each other so together they think the world is theirs.

If the one don’t want to get dress in the morning you can just about leave it. And if we went for a stroll in the pram, to shop or grocery shopping. We need to take their favourite toys( which are sometimes allot) or they dress up. I think Nika have bunions problems , cause she wants her slippers on most of time. I bought her pink bunny slippers Tuesday and the next day she walk in them till 4 o clock that afternoon. I bribe her to get it off!

Everything needs to be open up, been cut or need to been drawn on, needs to be turn up side down.

To be at a coffee shop with play gim and they start killing each other and I need to go up these spaceship things with the whole of the place watch at this enormous noise that’s need to be sort out. Then I want to burst into tears.

It;s then  when I start to scream YES ON THEM!!! I think I sound most of time like a bitch!! And I wonder is this normal???? Do other moms, nanny’s or daycare aunty’s do this also the whole time? Is this supposed to be normal? Will I lose it one day. Will this pass?? Ever?

But I do think this is normal at this age! Thank goodness!! Otherwise I am just bullshitting myself!

 

But I do adore them 99.9%!!!!!
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